I asked my hubby what he thought and he said that the hubby has little real involvement throughout the pregnancy and if this is the way he feels connected then hubby should be able to cut it.

i agree with him. We're the ones that feel it move all the time and are constantly thinking or reminded of being pregnant and all the Dads get is what we are telling them is happening and the way we ask them to participate is by helping around the house. Although we think its fantastic that they increase help, its not really feeling or bonding with the baby.

Having said all that, I think its up to both of you to decide whats right for you.

With the support person, I would definetly say have who you want in there, come on, labour isn't easy and the guys don't really understand.