BW- nothing can take the pain away and right now it will be great, but in time it eases .It helps to have a few momentos of your precious baby they was to be your greatest joy.Glad you got it okay. Keep 'everything' you can - even if you pack it away for now ,one day you might want 'keepsakes'.

I remember for a while one of my favourite quotes was I rather have a moment of happiness than never to have known it at all. or similar.

By the way - someone mentioned about a quote from someone else ... about an angel baby giving them answers ..not sure if anyone else mentioned already it but it was Bec G that has the quote ~Audrey~ & ~Charlotte~ gave them the answers to carry to full term (Eliza)

take care and I hope you have a good day and get lots of love from your mum.

Yes, I believe it does make your & Dh relationship stronger to share this together, and IVF/infertility too.

Also, it wasn't you at all that had to be embarassed - the other driver was a imbecile to *beep* - you had enough time and they were speeding in 50km zone. Idiot !